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*520  $aThe classic guide to love, sex, and intimacy beyond the limits of conventional monogamy has been fully updated to reflect today's modern attitudes and the latest information on nontraditional relationships. For 20 years The Ethical Slut has dispelled myths and showed curious readers how to maintain a successful polyamorous lifestyle through open communication, emotional honesty, and safer sex practices. The third edition of this timeless guide to communication and sex has been revised to include interviews with poly millennials (young people who have grown up without the prejudices their elders encountered regarding gender, orientation, sexuality, and relationships), tributes to poly pioneers, and new sidebars on topics such as asexuality, sex workers, and ways polys can connect and thrive. The authors also include new content addressing nontraditional relationships beyond the polyamorous paradigm of "more than two": couples who don't live together, couples who don't have sex with each other, nonparallel arrangements, couples with widely divergent sex styles, power disparities, and cross-orientation relationships, while utilizing nonbinary gender language and new terms that have come into common usage since the last edition.
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The classic guide to love, sex, and intimacy beyond the limits of conventional monogamy has been fully updated to reflect today's modern attitudes and the latest information on nontraditional relationships.

"One of the most useful relationship books you could ever read, no matter what your lifestyle choices. It's chock-full of great information about communication,jealousy, asking for what you want, and maintaining a relationship with integrity."-Annie Sprinkle, PhD, sexologist and author of Dr. Sprinkle's Spectacular Sex

For 20 years The Ethical Slut -widely known as the "Poly Bible"-has dispelled myths and showed curious readers how to maintain a successful polyamorous lifestyle through open communication, emotional honesty, and safer sex practices. The third edition of this timeless guide to theethicsof relationships, communication, and sex has been revised to include-

.Interviews with poly millennials (young people who have grown up without the prejudices their elders encountered regarding gender, orientation, sexuality, and relationships)
. Tributes topolyamorypioneers
.Tools forconflictresolution and instructions on how to improveinterpersonal dynamics
. New sidebars on topics such as asexuality, sex workers,LGBTQterminology, and ways polys can connect and thrive

The authors also include new content addressing nontraditional relationships beyond the polyamorous paradigm of "more than two"- couples who don't live together, couples who don't have sex with each other, nonparallel arrangements, couples with widely divergent sex styles, power disparities, and cross-orientation relationships, while utilizing nonbinary gender language and new terms that have come into common usage since the last edition.

• Welcome
• Who Is an Ethical Slut?p. 1
• Myths and Realitiesp. 10
• Our Beliefsp. 23
• Slut Stylesp. 31
• Battling Sex Negativityp. 47
• Building a Culture or Consentp. 53
• Infinite Possibilitiesp. 60
• The Practice of Sluthood
• Abundancep. 75
• Slut Skillsp. 83
• Boundariesp. 92
• The Unethical Slutp. 99
• Flirting and Cruisingp. 103
• Keeping Sex Safep. 113
• Childrearingp. 123
• Navigating Challenges
• Roadmaps through Jealousyp. 135
• Embracing Conflictp. 158
• Making Agreementsp. 172
• Opening an Existing Relationshipp. 186
• Sluts in Love
• Making Connectionp. 201
• Couples and Groupsp. 210
• The Single Slutp. 224
• The Ebb and Flow of Relationshipsp. 235
• Sex and Pleasurep. 243
• Public Sex, Group Sex, and Orgiesp. 270
• Conclusion: A Slut Utopiap. 292
• A Slut's Glossaryp. 296
• Further Readingp. 302
• About the Authorsp. 305
• Indexp. 306
• Exercises
• Sluts We Know and Lovep. 12
• Some Affirmations to Tryp. 90
• Practice Makes Perfectp. 115
• How Do You Experience Jealousy?p. 141
• Reassurancep. 149
• Fifteen Ways to Be Kind to Yourselfp. 152
• Treasuresp. 154
• Feelings Dyadp. 166
• Eight Steps to Win-Win Conflict Resolutionp. 177
• What Is Anger Good For?p. 191
• Hierarchy of Hardp. 193
• The Twenty-Minute Fightp. 196
• The Airport Gamep. 204
• A Healthy Breakupp. 242
• The Process-Free Datep. 256
• A Hot Date with Yourselfp. 257
• Yes, No, Maybep. 261
• More Fun with Your "Yes, No, Maybe" Listp. 263
• Get Loudp. 269